While I believe that the media serves its purpose and I welcome the occasional informational review, I’m reminded when I see constant negativity that not every opinion is accurate (regardless of who’s right or wrong). This extends to all of the opinions beyond the scope of media, i.e. those we hear in work rooms and board rooms, play rooms and bedrooms.
What I find most interesting is that in our efforts to rush conclusions, we often lose ourselves in the realm of things that may be slanted. We sometimes succumb to suppositions. Nevertheless, I think we must remember to look closer. Even in the midst of a melee, something amazing, magnificent, and astounding can rise to the top. All around the world, we see the wonderful acts of kindness and valor float to the top of the worst case scenarios, when peril is at its thickest.
I’m convinced that my eyes are unconsciously drawn to the details that may often otherwise be overlooked. As I was walking outside one day last month, I peered over into what appeared to be a broken pipe filled with a substance akin to sewage. My immediate thought was that what I was viewing was deplorable; but, I was taken aback at something…beautiful: prolific, yet petite; vibrant and vivacious; delicate, and in its own right – divine. I got on my hands and knees to look more closely.
I wasn’t sure of how the tiny seeds arrived at this destination; how they were nurtured; how they thrived, and how they had the audacity to grow just like the others of its kind that weren’t far away in more acceptable surroundings – and with the same zeal and aesthetic appeal. In my closed mindedness I thought, “Well, yeah, they’re pretty, but that’s not where they’re supposed to be. What’s around it looks gross. It doesn’t look right.” How ironic.
How often do we discount the beauty, the amazement of something that we see because we are so fixated on its context. Do we not at times, in our unconscious, narrowed viewpoints assume that if good things don’t come from good backgrounds that they can’t exist at all? Not so.
Many of history’s finest leaders came from troubled upbringings, broken homes, impoverished neighborhoods. Some of the world’s greatest inventions were developed with the crudest materials – because that was all that was available. Yet the ingenuity, passion, and wherewithal superseded the inclination of defeat. How often are laws developed that are beneficial because we are learning from our mistakes? Righting a wrong? Making things better?
I grow weary of disproportionate coverage of all of the ills of the world. While we’re balancing our diets, balancing our budgets, let us also balance our intake of what’s happening in “real life.” Instead of saturating the general public with stories that lead to disgust and dismay, let’s hear more about the people who are taking actions to change the world around them. Those who are spreading the news that changes lives; reaching out to others with love that expects nothing in return and are motivated by purity.
It may require us to look deeper; peer closely; notice the unnoticeable, and even get on our hands and knees. Nevertheless, I believe if we’re really insistent on looking for the positive, we will find it. It will be worth the effort. You’ll see what you didn’t see before, and be shocked at the depth of its beauty – regardless from whence it comes.
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